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I'm hurt because I give him everything and I want him to be a part of my entire life, not just pieces. And yet, I regret loving him, loving the children, every day. I am dating a very recently divorced man with 3 kids who is 12 years older than me. He is so good to me, I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend when we're together. I know he wants a smooth transition for the kids, but I am left feeling lonely, sad and left out.
I feel that if he loves me like he says he does then he should feel and do the same. I think that being with a divorced guy with kids really depends on the situation. I include him in all aspects of my life: I got him on my softball team, he's met/hung out with my friends multiple times, he's met my family, I invite him everywhere. I am dating a man with 2 sons from his ex-wife and a daughter with his ex-gf.
He had stopped off to have a beer with his brother before coming to my house. I have my colleget degree in a couple weeks and I'm moving on😊.
I'd recommend building a portfolio by keeping a diary / journal, though you are free to write as much as you want in addition to it. She's turned the kids against him and especially me and guess who gets the blame for it? And to top it all off, he's become more and more abusive over the last five years; enjoying being mean to me (he's got to take his frustrations with his ex and kids out on someone, right?
When they would all spend nights with me, he never wanted to pay for food. He did pay alot of support so he was very stingy with his money. All you will ever be to them is a "place to stay" or someone for them to cry a river to when the ex tightens the grip on their balls they will forever have because he got her pregnant!!
By taking things slow and being sensitive to the situation, you can develop a supportive and meaningful relationship with a single dad.Im sure its because of their mother but then again I'm not sure, my daughter still hadn't met any of them and i barely see my guy if i can even call him that i see him like twice a week but mostly once a week and not very long, it just hurts Yes. This divorcee of 3 children thought he was going to use me.I didnt meet his kids for 1 year so when i did i was enthusiastic.It your happy right now, you should keep going with it. I feel like I am not included in the most important aspect of his and it hurts. I am an Asian, we don't believe in divorce and that sort of thing. I am in this dilemma as I am also not sure if we will have a good future together...he's hesitant to get married and not so sure of having another child.
Just remember that it is still the beginning and you might not end up with him anyway. Troe1113, I realize that the situations are not exactly the same, but you could be in for a long wait and not even know if he's going to involve you or not with his kids. We talk about it often but nothing has changed and he keeps telling me to be patient. I am 33 yrs old, never been married and want children of my own.I am trying to be patient as he's asked me to do so.