Dating for married men seeking fun

03-Apr-2017 18:32

In between his kid's soccer game and a pizza party, B.* sends a picture of himself on a golf course.

Earlier, he sent 2,000 words on how he got into the game, the trips to California and Ireland, the way the clouds flood the greens at Galway Bay. The long puppyish emails, the condensation of an entire life into a few breathless paragraphs that allow him to retell the stories his wife has already heard.

He knew he was smarter, but she was beautiful and kind, and that was enough for him then.

We talk about books, and he says his wife doesn't excite this part of his brain.

"This is about It's true that one of the first men I meet fits that profile perfectly. tells me he can't have the kind of sex he wants to have with his wife because she's unwilling, and, on some level, he doesn't want to do those sorts of things with her.

He complains that she performs oral sex as if it were a chore.

"She just canceled her dinner, so now I can't meet you on Tuesday.

It doesn't matter, because he says he can imagine my voice; he says he knows exactly what it must sound like.

When he is standing on the soccer field and children are moving around in a blur, he says, he slips out of the game and thinks of me, and if his Black Berry vibrates in his pocket, he hopes that it is me.

They are beautiful, the son eating an ice cream cone, the young girl in overalls. is holding her up and she is grabbing his finger, and the finger is wearing a wedding ring. He believes that marriage is a path all men must travel at some point. wants to meet me, but he's not sure he can steal time away.

His message says, "Although we haven't yet met, something has happened (at least for me). is an engineer in his early 30s who practices birdcalling in his spare time, and sends me pictures of his younger days, when he went boating and life was dangerous and uncharted. If they've dated a woman for number of years, marriage comes next, an obligatory stop on the endless conveyer belt. For now, he is content to write — to paint the picture of the moment we lock eyes across a bar.But most have taken their pictures recently and surreptitiously.