Dear wendy online dating
And of course you already know that you can’t force results. You can’t go home at night and simply call it a day, because your home is no longer your home. That you and your spouse are drowning in debt because you will stop at nothing to help your kid. By definition, they know how to survive by lying, charming, manipulating. You might not (probably won’t) have the storybook, fairytale ending. Surely it's logical to assume that the negation of that right would reduce the crime rate? No, comes the US right-wing insta-reply: it’s not guns that kill people, it’s people that kill people.
You were never guaranteed the outcome, but that doesn’t change the kind of warrior you are. However, I want to stress that—no matter how hard adoption can be or sometimes is, . The older, “broken” kids whom no one else said YES to. You feel like a neglectful parent because you see your other kids withering away, living in their own fear, sadness, trauma. Your mom group just gives you a collective puppy dog sad face and tells you they’ll be praying. Teachers at your kid’s school tell you how sweet he is. All the world feels pity for your “innocent” child. I have lived it and survived it and am here to tell you now, that those are all LIES. You said YES when the rest of the world (and even the Church) said NO. They can pat themselves on the back and feel like a savior when it’s on back that the real burden lies. They haven’t stood in courtrooms while they listened to false accusations.