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25-Nov-2016 16:45

Paying attention to clusters of simple body language cues can go a long way in dating. But I actually walked away from it with a better understanding of how to be aware of & manage my own emotions.

During the Fall and Winter months people who would normally rather be single or promiscuous find themselves along with the rest of the world desiring to be "Cuffed" or tied down by a serious relationship.

Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor In my articles, I spend a lot of time giving you tips, tricks, and techniques to motivate and persuade your lovers (see here, here, here, here, here, here, and here). or Miss Right, get a date, and make it go well (see here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, and here).

To use these tips and tactics, however, requires a bit of interpersonal sensitivity - what dating coaches might call "calibration".

Negative body language - your partner might move away from you and create space between you two, if he or she dislikes what you are doing or asking.

In addition, other behaviors that signal dislike include: leaning away from you, feet pointed away from you, legs crossed and stiff, arms crossed, palms down, closed hands, itching eyes, scratching nose, or rubbing back of neck, frowning, grimacing, and turning the eyes away to the side.

Tiara: You know cuffing season is in full effect right?

You look for clusters of positive or negative body language.Personally, I have begun to see these general non-verbal behaviors from my partner as "green lights" (positive body language) and "red lights" (negative body language).