Intelligent men dating
Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... " (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you're having an EMOTIONAL conversation.If you don't know what I'm talking about, keep reading. Smart people usually have time to THINK about things.Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion: I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING. In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone "dumber" than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an "obviously less intelligent person" before trying it.Let me ask you a question: If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I. but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life? Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who isn't the smartest guy around...And you've probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life...
In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don't even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that people like" in their "MENTAL MODEL" of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating. and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions... So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women? They think the answer lies in learning just ONE MORE TECHNIQUE... Well what if there were a situation in life where the "get more information" strategy actually made things WORSE?
There's something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than them. and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.